Advent Week One

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HOPE: When God Lights a Candle in the Dark


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This Sunday’s sermon on Hope didn’t just speak to my mind—
it cracked open something holy in me.
It felt like the message wasn’t just information;
it was invitation.
It felt like God Himself was leaning over my soul and whispering:

“Daughter, Hope is still yours.
Pick it up again.”

There are weeks when the sermon teaches you
and weeks when it resurrects you.
This was the latter.

Because today we lit the first candle of Advent—
a flame so small and yet so fierce,
a flame that declares:

“Light has already pierced the darkness,
and nothing—nothing—can put it out.”

(John 1:5)


The Theology of Hope

A Flame That Defies the Night

Hope is not fragile.
Hope is fire.
Hope is holy courage.

Hope is the spiritual defiance that rises and says,
“I refuse to believe that this darkness is the end of my story.”

Hope is what pulls us to our feet
when grief and fear would prefer we stay down.

Hope is the tug of Heaven on a weary heart.
It is the echo of God’s voice reminding us,
“I am still working. Even here.”
(Romans 8:28)

Hope is the cry of Isaiah:
“Comfort, comfort my people.” (Isaiah 40:1)
It is the announcement of the angels:
“Do not be afraid.” (Luke 2:10)

Hope is what heaven breathes into us
when earth feels heavy.


Hope Is Born in Shadows, Not Sunlight

What I absorbed from the sermon today
is that Hope does not begin in perfection—
it begins in the dark.

The real Advent story is not tidy.

A teenage girl carrying a miracle with no blueprint.
A man wrestling between fear and obedience.
A town too crowded to notice God arriving.
A manger that smelled of animals and uncertainty.
Oppression pressing down on an entire people.

Hope was not born in comfort.
Hope was born in chaos.
Hope was born in the very places
we spend our lives trying to escape.

And that means something staggering:

God is not afraid of the dark parts of our story.
He chooses them as the birthplace of Hope.


Another thing I carried out of the sermon today
is the realization that Hope asks something from us—
not perfection,
but surrender.

Surrender of our timelines.
Surrender of our illusions of control.
Surrender of the belief
that God must move the way we prefer.

Faith is not certainty;
faith is trust.
Faith is the willingness to lean back
even when the path ahead is foggy.

Hebrews 11:1 reminds us:

“Faith is the substance of things hoped for,
the evidence of things not seen.”

Faith is the foundation.
Hope is the reaching.
Both require us to let God be God.


Faith, Hope, and Love- The Trinitarian Rhythm of the Human Heart

The sermon stirred something in me about the connection
between faith, hope, and love.
Paul didn’t separate them—he braided them:

“And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love.”
— 1 Corinthians 13:13

Faith believes God is who He says He is.
Hope believes God will do what He promised.
Love reveals why He does anything at all.

These three virtues are not seasonal—
they are the architecture of the Christian heart.

Whether we are single or partnered,
waiting or healing,
faith, hope, and love remain.

They remain when life reshapes itself.
They remain when hearts break and mend.
They remain when seasons shift
and we are unsure what God is building next.


Hope for the Single Heart

A Theology of Waiting**

One thread I pulled from the sermon
is how tender God is with those who wait.

Hope for the single heart
is not desperation—
it is devotion.

It is the sacred belief
that the desires God placed within you
are not accidents.
They are seeds.
And seeds grow best beneath the soil
where no one can see the transformation happening.

You are not behind.
You are not forgotten.
You are not the “unfinished chapter.”

You are the story God is actively writing—
a story worth waiting for.

Hope in singleness is not small faith;
it is mature faith.


Hope for the Coupled Heart

A Theology of Love That Endures**

Another truth that rose up in me during the sermon
is that Hope is not only for those waiting for love—
it is for those living inside love.

Love requires hope
when communication falters.
Love requires hope
when old wounds surface.
Love requires hope
when two imperfect humans
are learning how to be gentle again.

Hope says:
“This love can grow.”
“This bond can heal.”
“This story can deepen.”

Hope is the courage
to believe God has more for our relationships
than what our pasts have taught us to expect.


Hope for the Heart That Is Healing, Hurting, or Unsure

Hope is the gift God gives
to those who have run out of their own.

This hit me hard.

Because some seasons take everything out of us.
Some seasons drain us so deeply
we don’t even know how to pray for ourselves.

Hope is not a reward for the strong—
it is the medicine for the weary.

Hope meets you in the rubble of a broken season
and begins rebuilding one stone at a time.

Hope sits with you in uncertainty
and whispers,
“You will not stay here forever.”

Hope holds your hand in grief
and promises,
“Resurrection is coming.”

Hope is God’s way of saying,
“I will finish what I started in you.”


Hope Isn’t a Candle I Light

It’s a Candle God Lights in Me**

As the Advent candle burned this morning,
I felt something shift inside:

Hope is not something I manufacture.
Hope is something God awakens.

Hope is divine,
Spirit-breathed,
supernatural.

Hope is Emmanuel—
God with us
reminding us that we are never abandoned
in any season of waiting or wondering.

Hope is the evidence
that God is already walking ahead of us,
clearing a path we cannot yet see.


This Week, I Choose Hope Because God Chose Me

What I took from this Sunday’s sermon
is that Hope is not a gamble—
Hope is a promise.

This week, with humility and trembling courage,
I am choosing:

Hope in God’s character.
Hope in God’s timing.
Hope in love—
whether it is being prepared,
being refined,
or being restored.

Hope in healing that is slow, steady, and sacred.
Hope in the God who always finishes what He begins.

Not because I am strong—
but because God is faithful.

Not because my life is perfect—
but because His light shines best in the dark.

🕯️ Advent Week One: Hope has come.
Hope is coming.
Hope will come again.

And the flame will not go out.

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